Celaxryn RX You want a change and at least minimal variety in your sex life with your wife. I see absolutely nothing wrong or abnormal about it. I understand that you have already talked with your wife about changes, about introducing some new products. If I understand correctly, your partner doesn't feel like it. I wonder if from the beginning of your adventure with sex your partner was reluctant to go beyond selected, safe positions and caresses, or maybe it was only with time that you limited yourself to a certain, standard set. If it was different earlier and the wife was more open to experiments, I would urge you to tell your partner about close-ups or caresses that you remember somewhere that you miss. I strongly urge you to ask your wife if she also lacks some behavior, caresses or touch from years ago. Remembrance can be a good excuse to go back to old discoveries, and later perhaps to new searches. Please remember that this conversation should take place in the context of memories, dreams and not reproaches or resentments. It looks completely different if from the beginning your partner had difficulty opening herself to sexuality. If each of your caresses or positions was worked out jointly by you or chosen by your wife as safe, then I can only imagine how difficult it must be for her to allow herself something new in this sphere. In this case, there are no memories to go back to, there is a lot of fear or uncertainty. Changes are possible, but either in very small steps or with the help of a sexologist. You could suggest to your wife a really slight modification of the caress or sexual position, which on the one hand would be a bit different than what usually, but at the same time not raising resistance or discomfort.
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